Ya’ll Come Back Now, Ya Hear?
Tomorrow, I fly out of this city I’ve called home for the past 9 weeks. The city? Nashville, TN.
We left California on June 7, 2009 and drove four days across the country to finally arrive here. Our first week was spent in a hotel. That is all we thought we would need, for we were sure that we would have a place settled in a week.We were wrong. We ended up living out of a hotel for our first two weeks in Music City.
Those first two weeks were quite adventurous. Actually, the first three weeks (including the approximate week we spent driving over here) were crazy. On the drive over we almost died (so I’m exaggerating a bit..) in a freak storm we got caught in while driving through Oklahoma (not exaggerating about the storm – it was insane). It was our first Midwest storm. The lightning was so beautifully dangerous, winds incredibly strong, and rain pelting down. Dave swears our car got lifted off the road for just a second. When we finally pulled off the road, lightning hit the ground just twenty or so feet away from where we parked. This storm was insane!
The same storm followed us into Nashville. Our first weekend here, we made it to the CMA Music Festival. There we got to see pretty much all the current chart-topping artists in one weekend. The first night of concerts, that storm decided to make an appearance and put the concert on pause for two hours until it passed over.
Also in those first weeks we had been spending our days online – looking through craigslist and numerous apartment sites. We were looking for a place to live. We even signed up on roommates.com (which, by the way, I would not recommend – to get anywhere on that site you have to pay for their services).
But, finally, after the first two weeks, we found the house we have been living in on craigslist. Once we moved into the house, the craigslist hunt continued to find some furniture for Dave. We found him a really nice bed and rocker/swivel chair off the site. We were then settled in the house. The next step of our journey: job hunts.
Pretty much, I had no luck at all on the job market – and gave up fairly quickly because I was only here for a month and a half. Too, I realized that this was time I really needed, especially after last year. This summer has been a good time of rest and spiritual/inner growth. I’ve come to appreciate this time of nothingness quite much. Dave had his internship that he was working for. He had that, but has also been looking for another job. To this day, he has still been unsuccessful. The market stinks right now, and employers out here are really bad about getting back to you regarding job applications. However, in this last week or so, he’s had a few leads come up. I really hope something works out for him.
Out here, we got into a routine. The days Dave worked, I would come into town with him and spend my days at the Starbucks just 3 or 4 blocks down from his work. This Starbucks (which I’m at right now) has come to be known as my office. The days that Dave didn’t work, we slept in and would either spend the day just kinda vegging out at the house, or we would take a trip into the city and explore.
On some of these exploring ventures, we have been able to see some pretty cool stuff. We went and saw the Jack Daniels Distillery, the Grand Ole Opry, Opry Mills Mall, Nashville’s downtown (which is full of a ton of cool shops and bars), the outskirts of the city – which are full of beautiful mansions sitting on rolling green hills, The Hermitage (President Andrew Jackson’s house), the Bluebird Cafe, the Frist Center for the Visual Arts, Nashville’s exact replica of the Parthenon, Mellow Mushroom, San Antonio Taco Company, Toyama’s Japanese Steak House, and my favorite: CRACKER BARREL!
Thinking back, my whole time out here has been blessed. I have spent the summer with a truly great friend – and I’m thankful for that. Today, Dave actually joined me at the office. He didn’t have to work today. I had planned on him working, so when I found out he didn’t have work I asked if we could still come in. I’m a sentimental guy, I wanted one last visit in the office. *shrug* I had asked him to remind me of some of the things we’ve done and saw – and he just kept listing them off. There is so much to write about. Our 4th of July experience, fireflies, How I Met Your Mother, Corrie’s visit, the horrible drivers, and this last note, – it’s for Dave.
Today on our way to the office, we saw a lady and her daughter get out of a stranded car. We were pulling out of a parking lot because we were returning a RedBox movie. We saw them and decided to help. We parked, and made our way to the lady. She was about 30ish, drove a Mercedes, was wearing heels, and carrying a Louis Vuitton purse. She was Hispanic – and then her daughter was typical cute little 5ish year old girl. We asked her if she would like us to help her. She left her car stranded in the middle of the road. So we did, we pushed her car into the parking lot – away from oncoming traffic. We helped her out.
When we were pulling into the Starbucks parking lot, we were welcomed by this jolly homeless man. He had the biggest smile on his face and waved us into the parking lot. He brought a smile to both of our faces.
According to Dave, we did a good deed for a lady, and a nice gesture was returned to us.
At first, I thought that Dave was silly, and didn’t think much about his statement. But now, after actually writing it out and thinking on it – maybe it was coincidence, maybe it wasn’t. Whatever it was, it reminded me that we need to take note of the small things in life. Just that smile and welcome we received from the homeless man made my day.
Nashville – you’ve been great. Will I ever come back? Who knows. It’s been real. It’s been fun. It’s been real fun.







